Dominatrix Eva Oh Talks Power Play, Shoe Fetishism, and Domination

In the world of BDSM, few figures command as much respect and intrigue as Eva Oh. Known for her sophisticated approach to domination and her understanding of human desire, Eva has become a renowned name in the BDSM scene. In this exclusive interview with Erika Lust, Eva Oh opens up about her experiences while discussing shoe fetishism and what it means to be a dominatrix. Watch her mesmerizing performance in Madame Oh’s Shoeroom and delve deeper into her fascinating mind.

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Erika: I’m so excited to be here today with Eva Oh, also known as Mistress Eva. You’ve been a dominatrix since 2011, correct?

Eva: Yes, that’s right. I’ve been working as a dominatrix since 2011. My job involves interacting with people, introducing fetishes and kinks into a kind of one-on-one performance. Today, I’m here with you, surrounded by shoes, to talk a bit about what that experience might feel like.

Erika: Shoes are a big part of your world, I see. Do you have a particular love for shoes?

Eva: I do have a thing for shoes. I mean, who doesn’t, right?

Erika: Are there any specific types of shoes you prefer?

Eva: It really depends on the occasion, but there’s something about a five-inch stiletto pump that I can’t resist.

Erika: How does wearing those shoes impact your character or persona?

Eva: It just feels right. It’s hard to describe, but there’s a visceral drive behind it. I wouldn’t call myself a shoe fetishist, but I am drawn to beautiful things, and shoes fall into that category. They offer a conduit for feeling empowered and thrilled. For many, they become an object of desire.

Erika: A facilitator of desire, perhaps. Do you think there’s a difference between those who love wearing shoes and those who love admiring them?

Erika: How would you define a shoe fetishist?

Eva: I’d say it’s an expensive habit! But seriously, a fetishist is drawn to something in a way that feels essential to their experience of sexuality. Whether it’s a shoe, stocking, or even a body part, it’s something they can’t be drawn away from. It’s part of their sexual makeup.

Erika: Have you encountered many shoe fetishists?

Eva: Yes, I’ve met a few.

Erika: What usually draws them in?

Eva: It varies. For many, it starts with the visual appeal—the arch, the point, the engineering of the shoe. That’s where the imagination kicks in. But once you start interacting with it physically, it becomes more sensual—the feeling of the shoe against skin, the smell of the leather. There are many ways to experience it, depending on how deeply you want to go.

Erika: The way you describe it makes me start to visualize and fantasize about it. Do you have a memorable experience involving shoes?

Eva: I have one, yes. I wasn’t sure if I should share it, but here goes—once, I managed to slide a sharp metal stiletto into the urethra of a willing subject. It was a thrill.

Erika: That’s intense. Do you think that kind of interaction connects to power?

Eva: Absolutely. One of my fetishes is the reaction I get from others. Seeing someone overwhelmed or enamored is incredibly powerful for me. Combining that reaction with the visual of a shoe in such an intimate context—it just works.

Erika: Do people often get attracted to objects related to shoes, not just the shoes themselves?

Eva: Definitely. People can become attached to all kinds of things related to shoes, whether it’s the dirt that clings to the soles or the smell that lingers in the leather. There are many ways to enjoy it.

Erika: Do you think there’s still shame or stigma attached to shoe fetishes?

Eva: Shame and stigma run through society at large, especially with things like shoes, feet, or dirt. These are things closer to the ground, which seem to trigger deeper discomfort for some. But for those who understand and embrace their desires, it can be a beautiful secret to share with someone who gets it, whether that’s through a film, a session, or just a shared experience.

Erika: How do you design a session focused on shoes?

Eva: Each session is unique. Everyone’s experience of the same object can differ, so I pay attention to how people react to visuals, smells, touches, or pressure. Someone might want a graze, while someone else might want the sharpness of a stiletto on their skin. It depends on where their headspace is. The possibilities are endless, really. Sometimes, a session could even just be going shoe shopping.

Erika: Can you explain trampling to our audience, especially those unfamiliar with it?

Eva: Trampling is one of the classic activities in shoe fetish sessions. It can be done with or without shoes, and it involves stepping on someone. There are places on the body that are more suitable for this and places that are more erogenous. Applying pressure, especially with a shoe, is a favored experience for many.

Erika: What are the different types of shoes you encounter in your work?

Eva: The most classic type is the stiletto, much like my preference—closed-toe, leather, shiny, black. That’s something a lot of people are drawn to. But then you have the trainer group, who are often attracted to the smell, and others who are drawn to boots, enjoying the feel of leather, sometimes even a scissor-hold sensation. There’s also a subculture called bootblacks, people who take care of boots. They often have their own kit of shiners and different pomades. There is also usually some worship associated with this identity. Some are also into dirty, well-worn boots, even eating the dirt that comes off them. It’s intimate in its own way.

Erika: Fascinating. A little dirt never hurt, right?

Eva: Exactly.